{"id":1383,"date":"2020-11-08T14:55:05","date_gmt":"2020-11-08T11:55:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tasarrufdelileri.com\/?p=1383"},"modified":"2026-03-07T18:49:46","modified_gmt":"2026-03-07T15:49:46","slug":"hayatin-tadi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fonanalizi.com\/?p=1383","title":{"rendered":"Hayat\u0131n tad\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">Ne kadar <strong>g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve \u00f6z g\u00fcvenli<\/strong> olursak olal\u0131m; \u00f6nemli kararlar \u00f6ncesinde insan bazen kendisini cesaretlendirecek, s\u00f6zleriyle olmasa bile g\u00f6zleriyle, v\u00fccut diliyle bunu g\u00f6steren bir <strong>&#8216;ba\u015fkas\u0131na&#8217;<\/strong> ihtiya\u00e7 duyuyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En karma\u015f\u0131k duygu yuma\u011f\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kabilmek i\u00e7in de, en rasyonel karar ortadayken bile, o karar\u0131 benimseyebilmek i\u00e7in de laz\u0131m oluyor bu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Olumlanmay\u0131<\/strong> seviyoruz. Verdi\u011fimiz kararlar\u0131n kriti\u011fini sevdi\u011fimiz insanlarla yaparken, i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e bu duyguyu arar hale geliyoruz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z <strong>yaln\u0131zl\u0131klar y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131nda<\/strong> &#8216;anlamak ve anla\u015f\u0131lmak&#8217; telefon klavyelerindeki emojilerle ifade edilecek bir d\u00fczeye indirgenmi\u015f gibi sanki&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hayat\u0131n ko\u015fu\u015fturmas\u0131 bizi <strong>hem kendimize<\/strong>, hem de sevdiklerimize<strong> &#8216;ger\u00e7ekten&#8217; <\/strong>bakmaktan al\u0131koyuyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Giderek <strong>bireyselle\u015fen hayat <\/strong>g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri ve bu bireyselle\u015fmeyi takip eden<strong> t\u00fcketim<\/strong> al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131, iyi y\u00f6netilmezse, zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e s\u00fcreci bir sorunlar yuma\u011f\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Hem madden, hem manen..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00fcketimin <strong>&#8216;\u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm&#8217; <\/strong>olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, parasal dengelerimizi peri\u015fan ederek b\u00fcy\u00fck bir motivasyonla al\u0131p t\u00fcketti\u011fimiz \u015feylerin getirdi\u011fi tatminin <strong>&#8216;bir hayli ge\u00e7ici&#8217;<\/strong> oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda fark ediyoruz. Sarmal burada ba\u015fl\u0131yor; <strong>yanl\u0131\u015fa devam<\/strong> ediyoruz. Kaybolan tatmini h\u0131zla bir ba\u015fka t\u00fcketimle yerine koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sabr\u0131n, liyakatin ve stratejinin<\/strong> hayata yans\u0131mas\u0131 olan &#8216;tasarruf&#8217; olgusu da, bu sarmaldan y\u0131llard\u0131r zarar g\u00f6r\u00fcyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7evremizde pek \u00e7ok insan var&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hele <strong>kalabal\u0131k bir sosyal ortamda<\/strong> ya\u015fayan bir insansan\u0131z, hayat\u0131n\u0131zdan<strong> &#8216;daha sonra&#8217; <\/strong>tekrar kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir \u00e7ok insan ge\u00e7ip gidiyor, bu insanlar bize bazen s\u00f6zleriyle, bazen g\u00f6zleriyle, bazen de v\u00fccut dilleriyle <strong>say\u0131s\u0131z mesajlar<\/strong> verip, sonra da <strong>yitip gidiyor<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sizi bilemiyorum ama, bu mesajlar\u0131n <strong>&#8216;olumsuz&#8217;<\/strong> olmas\u0131ndan ve <strong>enerjimi almas\u0131ndan<\/strong> \u00e7ok yoruldum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer \u015fansl\u0131ysan\u0131z ger\u00e7ek hayatta bir nebze de olsa tahamm\u00fcl edebildi\u011finiz, kontrol edebildi\u011finiz kabal\u0131k ve nobranl\u0131k; bu kez sosyal medyada<strong> &#8216;dijital zorbal\u0131k ve kabal\u0131k&#8217;<\/strong> olarak rahat\u00e7a gelip sizi bulabiliyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsanlar kendilerinden ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck insanlara <strong>&#8216;ukala bi\u00e7imde&#8217;<\/strong> ismiyle hitap edebiliyor, kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki insandan &#8216;\u00f6\u011frenebilecek ve kendini geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in <strong>ilham verebilecek<\/strong>&#8216; bir \u015feyler almak yerine, sayg\u0131s\u0131zca konu\u015fabiliyor, yazabiliyor. Bu her yerde b\u00f6yle. Herkes \u00f6fkeli, herkes ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcden uzak&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, \u00e7ok yorucu&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">Bu <strong>yorgunluktan<\/strong> \u00e7ok s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 hissediyorum bazen. G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayattaki kabal\u0131ktan, ruh halimize \u00e7\u00f6ken nefret halinden, anlams\u0131z iti\u015f kak\u0131\u015ftan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hayat birbirimize <strong>sayg\u0131<\/strong> g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz, farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla zenginle\u015febildi\u011fimiz noktada g\u00fczelle\u015febiliyor; bu duygudan uzak kalmaktan \u00e7ok yoruluyorum y\u0131llard\u0131r. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bundan kurtulmak laz\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">Kurtulabilmek&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hayat\u0131 g\u00fczel k\u0131lan \u015feylere odaklanabilmek. Bir insan\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten<strong> &#8216;sevebilmek&#8217; <\/strong>mesela. Belki de bir insana <strong>&#8216;yard\u0131m edebilmek&#8217;<\/strong> onu incitmeden, ona fark ettirmeden. Her ya\u015ftan insana <strong>sayg\u0131<\/strong> duyabilmek. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u015feyleri t\u00fcketmek yerine <strong>\u00fcretebilmek<\/strong>. \u00c7ok karma\u015f\u0131k olmak zorunda de\u011fil, limon \u00e7ekirde\u011fini topra\u011fa g\u00f6m\u00fcp sulamak, filizlenmesini izlemek mesela \u00e7ocuklarla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">Okudu\u011fun <strong>kitab\u0131 bir ba\u015fka insanla tart\u0131\u015fabilmek<\/strong>, bir kahve i\u00e7erken&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Topluluk \u00f6n\u00fcnde konu\u015fabilmek, <strong>d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini ifade edebilmek<\/strong>, kendinle bar\u0131\u015fabilmek&#8230;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tasarruf elbette hayat d\u00f6ng\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn <strong>\u0131srarc\u0131 olunmas\u0131 gereken<\/strong> bir taraf\u0131. Her s\u00fcre\u00e7te her ili\u015fkide oldu\u011fu gibi, tasarruf s\u00fcrecinde de olumsuz, <strong>negatif insanlardan<\/strong>; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerden uzak durmak laz\u0131m. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama <strong>fildi\u015fi kulelerimizde<\/strong> ya\u015fam\u0131yoruz ki, olumsuz, enerjimizi alan t\u00fcm insanlarla da payla\u015fmak zorunday\u0131z bu hayat\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bize <strong>as\u0131l de\u011fer verenlere <\/strong>yak\u0131n olmal\u0131, ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fumuz <strong>&#8216;bir ba\u015fkalar\u0131&#8217;<\/strong> var ya hani, onlara daha \u00e7ok odaklan\u0131lmal\u0131&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Hayat\u0131 \u0131skalamamal\u0131!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">Bazen hayatta, hisse senedinden elde etti\u011fin beklenmedik bir kazan\u00e7la, sevdi\u011fin insanla <strong>bir ak\u015fam yeme\u011fi<\/strong> yiyebilmek de, hayal etti\u011fin \u015fehri <strong>gezebilmek<\/strong> de, \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u00e7ok istedi\u011fi bilgisayar\u0131 <strong>alabilmek<\/strong> de olmal\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yoksa hayat\u0131n ne tad\u0131 kal\u0131rd\u0131&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sa\u011fl\u0131kla kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ne kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve \u00f6z g\u00fcvenli olursak olal\u0131m; \u00f6nemli kararlar \u00f6ncesinde insan bazen kendisini cesaretlendirecek, s\u00f6zleriyle olmasa bile g\u00f6zleriyle, v\u00fccut diliyle bunu g\u00f6steren bir &#8216;ba\u015fkas\u0131na&#8217; ihtiya\u00e7 duyuyor. 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